Girlfriend: you lor. cant you remember?
B: You sure? i'm sure i didnt receive this sms lor. dont lie to me. tell me the truth.
G: yah, i sent it to you, remember that? i never lie to you lor.
B: okie. why this person called you for what?
G: oh, nothing much la. *starts explaining*
B: okie. why you called this person for what?
G: oh, was feeling bored and wanted to talk to someone lor.
B: okie, next time feel bored call me, dont call anyone else.
and so the story carries on..
Boyfriend was looking through the past few days' activities carried out on girlfriend's handphone. Checking her call entries, sent items etc.
And boyfriend and girlfriend are not teenagers. They are in their early 30s. I really wonder if girlfriend will get tired of all the explaining that is needed to be done. Perhaps she enjoys it eh? Does this thing happen between you and your partner? Yes, I know love can make you do anything; love makes you do irrational things; love makes you blind; love makes you not to see things clearly; but love makes you change.
I absolutely dislike having to go through all these checking and asking routines and having my partner not believing me and asking me not to lie to him.
Of course, I have a couple of friends who have this kind of relationships with their partners, which to me, is absolutely fine, and it always makes me amused whenever they do this. Right, dear? *winks*
So, i need a guy who, doesnt do this to me? So boyfriend, remember not to do this to me yeah?
Also, when your partner strays, dont just put the blame on him/her. When a relationship fails, it is because there is something wrong on both sides. So, when your friend's relationship does not work out, do not push the blame onto the other party.
I always thought you are different. I thought libras ought to have some similar elements in them. Today you proved me wrong. I am a little, okie, quite disappointed in you. What happened to the person that I used to know 2 years ago?
Sometimes I wish that you would like me, just like you used to.
Sometimes I wish that you would look forward to seeing me each time, just like I do.
Sometimes I wish that you would do certain things on purpose in order to spend more time with me, just like you used to.
Strangely, you seem to become a different you.
[case #1]
sms: hey can you help me with this problem?
*woken up by the sms. slept only 4 hours. should i wake up and on my computer and help this person?*
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*continues sleeping and tries to ignore the sms.*
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*cant get back to sleep and cant get the sms out of my head.*
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*starts to feel bad.*
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*on computer.*
[case #2]
sms: hey can you send me this?
*shit, that file is in my laptop and i am not using it. means i have to on my laptop just to send it to him? *
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*thinking whether i should just send it tmr or do it right now.*
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*decides to ignore it and just do it tmr or at a later time.*
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*shit la. i am starting to feel bad.*
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*on laptop and sent it to him.*
Been greeting my friend with "SHITA" everytime I see her. It's quite hilarious to think of it. Alright, it's nothing funny but I guess it's only between us to recognise the meaning of this word.
