"do you feel that I am not doing enough?"

This question left me pondering for some time while I was lying on my bed last night. How would I blame you for not doing enough, when I too, perhaps have not done enough. I have expected a lot from you, but I do not realise that I am, also, not giving enough.


Take a look at the conversations below:

wei ling. [ let's go and eat steamboat supper soon, yeah? ]
F1: steamboat? okie! when?

*pause*

My reply: i dont know..

wei ling. [ let's go and eat steamboat supper soon, yeah? ]
F2: yea steamboat! when?

*pause*

My reply: i dont know..

wei ling. [ let's go and eat steamboat supper soon, yeah? ]
f3: when? tonight?

*pause*

My reply: i dont know..


Yes, I really don't know. With school and meetings that you wont know you are going to have till someone tells you the day before, or even on the day itself, how to have steamboat supper! You tell me!